{In love} (en agap(8869)). If truth were always spoken only in
love! {May grow into him} (aux(8873)(936d)en eis auton). Supply hina
and then note the final use of the first aorist active
subjunctive. It is the metaphor of verse  13  (the full-grown
man). We are the body and Christ is the Head. We are to grow up
to his stature.